Cristina Carlino, founder of Philosophy cosmetics, says it perfectly, Women are kind to everyone it seems, except themselves. But self-love, the knowledge that no matter what, you matter, gives you the ultimate glow.

I stumbled upon this quote reading O, The Oprah magazine this weekend. Away with women friends we shared, talked, laughed, cried, and listened to one another – supporting my philosophy of refilling my cup by getting away and rediscovering myself through friendships.

No face cream, health regime, or magic pill can “fix” you more than believing in yourself.

And of course that can be tough and definitely not always come naturally. You may try everything else first. This thing to numb you, that thing to distract.  This one to change you, this one to make you prettier, smarter, thinner, younger. AAAHHHH. The insanity must stop so we can catch our breath and slow down long enough in order to love ourselves just as we are. Long enough to figure out what we need and what philosophy works for us instead of beats us up.

Cheers, Jenny